As we step out of summer into fall, we can sense changes all around us: dips in temperature, changes in the direction of the sun, length of day, availability of fruits and vegetables. Everything starts to shift and slow down.
Nature and a woman’s body are not very different. Both work in cycles, seasons and rhythms. Several physical and emotional health challenges we experience as women today are a result of being disconnected from the wisdom of both Mother Nature and our body’s nature.
A woman’s body, like the seasons, goes through four main phases in each cycle of 29 and ½ days:
Spring = follicular phase
Summer = ovulation phase
Fall = luteal (or the dreaded PMS phase)
Winter = menstruation phase
Each phase brings with it a unique set of hormonal, physical, emotional and mental gifts.
When we understand these cycles and eat, work, love and play according to our natural flow, we get better at working with our feminine power and not against it. Let’s dive into this “season”, shall we?
The Fall Phase of our Cycle.
The fall/luteal phase is commonly referred to as pre-menstrual syndrome or PMS phase.
In the body:
Like the fall season, during this phase our energy naturally dips and we tend to physically feel withdrawn. Gentler, less strenuous forms of exercise such as Yoga, walks, Pilates serve us well during this time. This is also the time our body begins to crave warmer, comforting foods. Choose healthy options, especially of sugar and fats, and ensure high intake of fiber to support the body’s functions.
In the heart:
As progesterone levels increase in our body we experience a slower, more relaxed temperament. This is a good time to make self-care a priority, be comfortable, rest and curl up with a book, take long baths and not force yourself to be physically or socially active if your body and mind don’t support it. Our desire to nest increases during the luteal phase and you might find yourself re-arranging furniture or beautifying your home.
In the mind:
We have an enhanced awareness and attention to detail during this phase. We also tend to get anxious and fidgety during this phase, especially in the second half. There is a feeling of ‘getting things over with’ which is caused by the build-up of the uterine lining. It’s a great idea to channelize this energy to complete activities that require an attention to detail and problem-solving skills: spread sheets, bill payments, cleaning out and organizing filing cabinets, sales figures etc.
Most women I know and work with fight the luteal and menstrual phases of their cycle vehemently. Of course these are not the same as the active-festive-relationship-oriented follicular and ovulatory phases. This seemingly affects their work and productivity and ability to do and accomplish things. It is important for every woman to understand that fighting these phases is what causes complications in the menstrual cycle and other health issues plaguing women today. This understanding is very helpful for women entrepreneurs and leaders who can leverage these rhythms to carry out different tasks and activities during each phase.
If you’re interested in cracking the code of your hormonal blueprint and use it to work and live well (like an entrepreneurial goddess of creativity ;)) then I invite you to join me for the Radiant Woman retreat. A one-day even on 10/12 where we will dive into our hormonal, emotional and spiritual gifts as women. Click here for more information
In the comments section, tell me how you feel about different phases of your cycle. Do you find your energy and productivity change throughout the month? What would you add to the gifts of fall?
Siphosith Sithole says
i like the way you liken the woman as having seasons and the way you explain the seasons. You have a great message when you ask the women to listen to their bodies, as this helps them to be more productive. It makes me understand why I do some things in the different seasons. I agree during the fall season, there is definitely lots of craving for comfort food and getting busy with lots of energy, more than normal.
Puja Madan says
Thanks Siphosith, so glad this post resonated with you. The more we sync up with our natural rhythms the easier it gets to create and do without burning out. Lots of love to you xo
Robbie Schlosser says
Thanks for this interesting analogy. Comparing similar phases of different cycles illuminates aspects we might otherwise overlook. Bottom line, I guess, is that we ought to recognize our cycles more clearly, to let the wisdom of our body guide our activities. I’m not a woman, but your advice will surely help me be a better companion to my wife and other women.
Puja Madan says
Thanks Robbie, its always a pleasure to share the love with my brothers so they can support their women in a more holistic way. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. Much love xo
Lora Frost says
I often have wondered why I just start craving eating and more eating, but this explains it in a way I intuitively understand. Thanks for shedding some light on this conundrum every month 🙂
Puja Madan says
Hi Lora, thanks for stopping by. We rely too much on outside sources for answers when they are, in fact, contained within our incredible body’s wisdom 🙂 glad you found this useful xo
april says
what a beautiful way of explaining women’s natural cycles. embracing the season in which we are in, working with its highs and lows, knowing how to prepare for the expected “weather.” thank you.
Puja Madan says
Haha April, I like how you put it! Glad it resonated. Much love 🙂
Cara Maclean says
Never have I heard such a cool explanation of our cycles! And I figured going through filing cabinets was just a procrastination technique. I do notice differences in my moods and energy, and I’m happy to say that I think I’m aware of them being cycles most if the time. Thanks!
Puja Madan says
Love it Cara, awareness is always the most powerful tool we have. Lots of love xo
Torie says
I am well aware, as are most, of the hormonal, emotional and physical changes, but I have never thought of the mental changes. As a creative entrepreneur I notice times when I am more in the flow creatively or more detail oriented. I have learned unless if is urgent it is best to wait on a creative endeavor if today doesn’t feel right. A day or two later is better than a so-so effort. I will be more conscious of what season I am in from now on to see what effect it has on my work. Seasonal scheduling may be a good thing. Great article. t